My boyfriend does NOTHING. How can I motivate him?

Girl, I'm in the same situation, only we've been dating 3 years instead of 4. My boyfriend has no time for me, but plenty of time for himself. The only advice I can give is to talk to him before things get really bad. Also, stop doing some of the things that you do for him all the time. That way, he'll realize all that you do for him and also need to take some responsibility for himself.